Dating advice to older gay men
They’re the ones who stand out in people’s memories, who can command attention (and affection) with seeming ease.One of the best things you can do – especially as a short man – is to develop your sense of presence.The trick is understanding how to make height less of an issue.Seem like a tall order One of the worst things that guys can do to themselves is to get defensive about being short.The problem with this is that the sudden color change – from white to brown to blue – creates a visual interruption.The eye doesn’t travel smoothly down your profile; the sudden change cuts you in half, truncating your torso and skewing your proportions.Short men are screwed when it comes to dating, right?After all: most things in your dating life can be worked on and improved upon, but the cold hard truth is that some aspects are set in stone. and there are few other aspects that cause men as much dating agita as being short.
You’ve been called midget, Tiny Tim, Grumpy and all the other names.
A shitty attitude, whether angry and aggressive or defeated and negative, will nuke any chance of sex or love faster than telling them that you eat live puppies. A short man with confidence is far more attractive than a tall guy without it.
The attitude that your height is a defect and nobody could possibly love a short man is attraction poison. Yes, you may have to fake it for a while as you unlearn the bullshit that’s been shredding your ego.
That’s Just remember: Cultivating an air of ease and self-assurance is not only attractive in and of itself, but it leads into my next tip: It’s not how tall you are; it’s how tall people feel you are.
There are some people who can fill a room, regardless of how tall they are or aren’t.